A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another. John 13:34-35  

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SEEING GOD EXPRESSED … in basketball changed my outlook on life

It’s the third quarter, and it’s the first basketball game of the season that I’ve been a bench warmer. 
          “Yeah, Sarah! Nice move!” She had made a sweet move, and we scored! What could have been more exciting than that!? It was amazing. Oh look, they’re coming down the court again to play offense. 
          “Look at JJ! She’s open, she’s open!… No!” The offensive player on our team threw the ball right into the defender’s hands, and she shot down the court for an easy lay-up. Two points for them. How could they let that happen?
          “Come-on! Hustle! Get back on defense! Oh, nice pass.” Maybe we’ll get the shot this time.

… FREEZE!

That’s exactly what I did. On the bench for that game, in that moment, I froze. I stood still for just a few moments. Both my actions and emotional involvement in the basketball game froze. I could still hear everyone around me cheering, yelling, and screaming, but it felt like I wasn’t there. I was alone in thought.

And those few moments of stillness changed the way I view sports forever. In those few moments, something made me step away from myself and look and observe through eyes I rarely look through. In that moment, flashbacks of years and years of playing sports, not only basketball, raced through my head.  For these few moments, I saw everything in my past, present, and future differently.

… UNFREEZE!

Questions flowed through my head:

  • Was I really getting that caught up in a game?
  • How many years have I been letting my emotions be determined by whether or not we made a good pass or threw the ball into the defender’s hands?

That moment -- when I had a quiet, peaceful, stillness -- enabled me to step back from myself and see how much I was immersed in a simple game. With no effort involved, something in me changed; it was completely unexpected. Even if I tried, I could not change it back. My love for the game of basketball (as I knew it) left; it was gone! “Voilá!” That was all it took. 

But wait, there is more to it. I did not decide to quit basketball simply because I didn’t love it anymore. My love of the game didn’t just leave me and disappear. I just didn’t love it in the same way. I love different aspects of the game now. 

I love looking out on the court and seeing God expressed through joy, harmony, supportive teammates, and so much more.  This is what I now love in basketball -- God. So it really isn’t basketball that I love anymore; it’s the experience of living and moving as the expression of God that is so dear to my heart.  Playing basketball is a wonderful way to rejoice in the glory of God.  Basketball is not the only place you can do that.  This experience has made me enjoy things in my life that I have never enjoyed before. Simple things have touched my heart.

Basketball is great.  I am always going to be grateful for the role it has played in my life and the lessons I’ve learned through it. But now I want to share with others what I have learned. 

  • It’s more rewarding when you love something for what it stands for, not just for what you are physically gaining or experiencing. 
  • Life is about love. 
  • So no matter what you are doing, whether it’s playing basketball, doing school work, chilling with friends, or knitting, as long as there is Love, each experience can be unforgettable and life changing.

Psalms 32:11 declares, “Be glad in the Lord, and rejoice, ye righteous: and shout for joy, all ye that are upright in heart.”

Let’s take that to heart and rejoice in the Lord!

 
 

-- Tiffany Safronoff, teenager

 
 
 

 

 
 
     
 

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Making a Difference Topics

 
  The Golden Rule  
  Forgive! The Bible Helps Us  
  Let God and Parents Help  
  Love’s Real Valentine  
  Judge Not  
  Appreciate Family  
  Cast Your Vote Everyday  
  Making Ethical Decisions  
  Persevere with God  
  Prayerful Preparation  
  Students Inspire Speaker  
  Finding a Father Figure  
  Finding a Home for her Child  
  Fear Conquered with the Help of a Friend  
  Inspiring the Spark Within  
  Stopping Gossip  
  Stand Up for What's Right  
  On the Home Front  
  Dave's Burning Bush  
  Sharing Home  
  Picking Persimmons  
  Towing stranded boaters  
  Stranded on the road to the airport -- a stranger made the difference  
  Celebrate Fathers  
  Celebrate Mothers  
  Practical ways to make “brotherly love continue”  
  Do God’s Will -- Love!  
  Commit Daily to Progress  
  Pray for our Governments World-Wide  
  Speak with Love  
  Ready, set … SHINE! Give your all!  
  Confidence  
  Include Others  
  Be happy no matter what. Do everything with joy!  
  Spread Freedom: Make Church, Christ, Central by Loving  
  Right Attitudes = Right Actions = Making a Difference  
  Write Letters about Your Life  
  Participate in the Resurrection  
  Step out from the crowd; be yourself  
  Express Creativity - learn the creative process  
  Make 3 Days Criticism Free  
  Find the Blessings this Christmas  
  Make November Kindness Month  
 

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  September’s School Survival Guide  
  Like Haggai, Zechariah, and Malachi, let’s write our own Recipes for Life and follow them.  
  Read Bible magazines, and gain spiritual insight on dating, individuality, community, music, and more.  
  We can have
the courage to stand up for
right even if we’re scared;
do what’s right even if it’s not cool; see people for who they are.
 
  Pay attention to Joel and Amos; trust God amidst destruction; be humble; change lives  
  Support tsunami relief and pray  
  Be a leader
like Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach,
Abed-nego
 
  Take care of our Earth. Make the best choices.  
  Live the Golden Rule daily by loving others  
  Express Christmas love -- love yourself
and others
 
  Write thank you letters  
  Strive for wisdom; start "wisdom circles."  
  Pray for the world; write and share a psalm  
  Stand up for yourself, as Job did; be a good friend.  
  Be an active volunteer in your community  
  Be like Jabez-pray big, and expect your prayers to be answered.  
  Be a prophet like Elijah and Elisha; stand up for God  
  Modern Day Psalms  
  Like Samuel and Nathan, you can serve God and help others do right.  
  Like David, you can defeat "Goliaths."  
  Like Ruth, you can build a new life with God.  
  Put the "Christ" into Christmas and everyday. Help de-stress your parents.  
  Like Gideon, you can help free others. Share your gratitude.  
  Like Joshua, you can be a principled leader  
  Like Moses, you can defeat terrorism  
  Like Moses, you can use the commandments daily  
  Like Moses, you can free yourselves and others  
  Like Joseph, you can make the best of tough situations  
  Like Jacob, you can forgive and ask forgiveness  
  Like Jesus, you can serve others with humility
 
  Like Isaac and Rebekah,you can strengthen all relationships
 
  Like Abraham, you can be a peacemaker, friend, and healer
 
  Simple things you can do to help make a difference in others' lives  
 
 
     
   
     
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