A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another. John 13:34-35  

  YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE  
 

The world needs you -- your ideas, your compassion, and your spiritual outlook. And, it’s never too late to start contributing.

  • How have you made a difference in others’ lives -- in your family, school, church, community, and world?
  • How have others positively impacted your life -- in little or big ways, in practical aspects or in spiritual development?

We’d like to hear. Please send us your experiences, ideas, or suggestions.

FREE YOURSELF OR FRIENDS FROM DRUGS

Most of us know that drugs hurt you. They hurt your bodies, minds, and relationships. Drugs disable you from thinking for yourself. You don’t always know what you’re doing. They affect your ability to think well, and they slow down or speed up your reactions.

I know this from some of my friends and acquaintances who have used drugs. As a result, I obviously don’t think that anyone should take drugs.

If you know people who are doing drugs, then you really have a responsibility to try to help them. You might try telling them how worried you are about them, how much drugs are hurting them, and how important these individuals are to you.

In order to help someone else stop doing drugs or not get into them in the first place, or to keep yourself from falling victim to drugs…

  • You have to ask why you think you (or your friend) want to do drugs.
  • You should always check your motives. In fact, this is true for anything you do.

Doing drugs for fun is not a right motive because you are basing your fun on something that is totally physical.  Plus, it messes up your mind and body and it’s against the law. But “fun” may not be the real reason.

The bottom line is that there is never a good motive for doing drugs.

Lots of people will say drugs are wrong. But if you want to change, you have to know why they’re wrong. Some of the reasons have already been mentioned. There are other reasons that will apply to each individual situation. The point is, once you know how bad drugs are, there is no reason to do them. The long-term effects simply aren’t worth it.

We all can learn from mistakes! But to keep doing something that you know is wrong just digs you into a deeper and deeper hole, making it harder and harder to climb out.  And if you keep doing something because you don’t know how people will react if you try to stop, then take a look at Peter in the Bible. Peter denies Jesus three times, but Jesus forgives him. Jesus tells Peter, “Feed my sheep” (John 21:15-17). Jesus expects Peter to go out and help others.

Allow yourself to be forgiven.

 
 

-- Kendall James, freshman

 
     
  Editors Note:
Perhaps you or your friend got involved in drugs because of feeling inadequate. Maybe there’s self-hatred. Or you or they may feel unable to handle problems at home or school and wish for an escape.

Whatever the reason, forgiveness enables you to start over with a clean slate, to begin again. It’s amazing what freedom forgiveness gives you.

To help you or a friend begin a drug-free life…

  • Allow yourself to be loved.
  • Allow yourself to feel God’s love.
  • Start seeing the person God created, the person God loves.
  • Start identifying yourself as God’s daughter or son.
  • Watch how your self-esteem rises.
  • As a result, your desire to harm the child God created by doing drugs will naturally diminish.

It’s also very important to get supportive adults involved. Often we think we can do everything by ourselves. It’s amazing what turning to someone with more life experience and more love can do. You wouldn’t want to be responsible for not doing everything you could to help a friend, and that may mean breaking a promise not to tell a parent or teacher. You might ask yourself what is more important – your friendship or their health and their lives.

 
 

-- MFE

 
 
 

 

 
 
     
 

Email us and share how you have made a difference.

We wiill post as many of your experiences and ideas as possible each month.

 
 
 

Previous
Making a Difference Topics

 
  Seeing God Expressed  
  The Golden Rule  
  Forgive! The Bible Helps Us  
  Let God and Parents Help  
  Love’s Real Valentine  
  Judge Not  
  Appreciate Family  
  Cast Your Vote Everyday  
  Making Ethical Decisions  
  Persevere with God  
  Prayerful Preparation  
  Students Inspire Speaker  
  Finding a Father Figure  
  Finding a Home for her Child  
  Fear Conquered with the Help of a Friend  
  Inspiring the Spark Within  
  Stopping Gossip  
  Stand Up for What's Right  
  On the Home Front  
  Dave's Burning Bush  
  Sharing Home  
  Picking Persimmons  
  Towing stranded boaters  
  Stranded on the road to the airport -- a stranger made the difference  
  Celebrate Fathers  
  Celebrate Mothers  
  Practical ways to make “brotherly love continue”  
  Do God’s Will -- Love!  
  Commit Daily to Progress  
  Pray for our Governments World-Wide  
  Speak with Love  
  Ready, set … SHINE! Give your all!  
  Confidence  
  Include Others  
  Be happy no matter what. Do everything with joy!  
  Spread Freedom: Make Church, Christ, Central by Loving  
  Right Attitudes = Right Actions = Making a Difference  
  Write Letters about Your Life  
  Participate in the Resurrection  
  Step out from the crowd; be yourself  
  Express Creativity - learn the creative process  
  Make 3 Days Criticism Free  
  Find the Blessings this Christmas  
  Make November Kindness Month  
 

Help those affected by the Hurricanes

 
  September’s School Survival Guide  
  Like Haggai, Zechariah, and Malachi, let’s write our own Recipes for Life and follow them.  
  Read Bible magazines, and gain spiritual insight on dating, individuality, community, music, and more.  
  We can have
the courage to stand up for
right even if we’re scared;
do what’s right even if it’s not cool; see people for who they are.
 
  Pay attention to Joel and Amos; trust God amidst destruction; be humble; change lives  
  Support tsunami relief and pray  
  Be a leader
like Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach,
Abed-nego
 
  Take care of our Earth. Make the best choices.  
  Live the Golden Rule daily by loving others  
  Express Christmas love -- love yourself
and others
 
  Write thank you letters  
  Strive for wisdom; start "wisdom circles."  
  Pray for the world; write and share a psalm  
  Stand up for yourself, as Job did; be a good friend.  
  Be an active volunteer in your community  
  Be like Jabez-pray big, and expect your prayers to be answered.  
  Be a prophet like Elijah and Elisha; stand up for God  
  Modern Day Psalms  
  Like Samuel and Nathan, you can serve God and help others do right.  
  Like David, you can defeat "Goliaths."  
  Like Ruth, you can build a new life with God.  
  Put the "Christ" into Christmas and everyday. Help de-stress your parents.  
  Like Gideon, you can help free others. Share your gratitude.  
  Like Joshua, you can be a principled leader  
  Like Moses, you can defeat terrorism  
  Like Moses, you can use the commandments daily  
  Like Moses, you can free yourselves and others  
  Like Joseph, you can make the best of tough situations  
  Like Jacob, you can forgive and ask forgiveness  
  Like Jesus, you can serve others with humility
 
  Like Isaac and Rebekah,you can strengthen all relationships
 
  Like Abraham, you can be a peacemaker, friend, and healer
 
  Simple things you can do to help make a difference in others' lives  
 
 
     
   
     
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