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Freedom!
It's one of the greatest blessings in the world. But
often, we don't feel free. We want to be independent
from our parents and teachers. We want the freedom
to be who we want to be. And yet, sometimes it seems
so difficult in the face of "so many rules."
So, we challenge boundaries in order to find our freedom,
to define ourselves. The search for freedom is part
of teenage life.
But are we willing to take the consequences
of pushing the boundaries?
Often times, we look only at the wall keeping us in.
We don't look past it. And when we break through the
wall and fall off a cliff, we realize -- on the way
down -- that the wall was there to keep us from falling.
Rules from parents, teachers, and society are usually
walls to support us, to keep us from falling. And
while we may believe we don't need the walls, we might
as well accept that walls are there. Knowing this,
we can use our energies to discover how to be free
-- regardless of the walls and in any situation.
How or where can we be free?
In THOUGHT!
We can think whatever we like. Freedom of thought
is one freedom no one can ever take away. What we
think about influences who we are, shapes our days,
and impacts our lives. What we want in our lives starts
in our thoughts. We are bombarded by ideas constantly
-- from billboards, TV programs, ads, music, teachers,
friends, parents, etc. Ideas come at us from all sides.
We have the choice to let the ideas stay in our thoughts,
or we can usher them out of our minds.
The problems begin when we don't take
an active role in maintaining the clarity of our own
thinking. Many thoughts are happy, imaginative, and
freeing. These thoughts need to be explored and used
as a foundation for our actions. But other thoughts
are dark and limiting -- thoughts like: "I am
alone; I am incompetent; I am sick; I am violent;
I am ugly; I am angry; I am a victim; I am out of
control
." When we let these thoughts take
over our consciousness, we are being enslaved by a
limited concept of ourselves. As a result, we are
not living up to God's idea of us.
So how do we choose freedom?
Sometimes, everything looks dark, and focusing on
the light is difficult. But it is possible to lighten
up our thoughts.
- We have to refuse to listen to negative, limiting
thoughts about ourselves. We need to let those thoughts
just pass by us.
- We need to think about the good that is possible.
- We need to think of things for which we are grateful.
Being grateful is one of the best ways to feel free.
Think about it. We all have something to be grateful
for, and gratitude gives us a rich outlook on life.
Our thoughts can be as rich and free as we choose.
Jesus affirmed:
And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall
make you free. John 8:32
So, if you had all the freedom in the world (and
you do in thought) how would you answer these questions:
- How do I want to spend my day?
- Who am I, and what kind of person do I want to
be?
- What direction do I want my life to go?
It's quite all right if you don't know. I don't think
that when one of the world's greatest freedom fighters
was a teenager, he had planned to write down the Ten
Commandments. In fact, he was probably breaking one
or two of them. And walking into Egypt and walking
out with most of Pharaoh's slaves (the Jews) probably
wasn't on Moses' "to do" list either. And
later in life, if Moses had done things his way, I
think he might have roasted a marshmallow or two on
the burning bush and called it a day. But he didn't.
Rather, "Moses said, I will now turn aside, and
see this great sight, why the bush is not burnt"
(Ex. 3:3). And that choice to understand God's purpose
for him enabled Moses to help his people gain freedom
from the Egyptians.
Was Moses scared? Was he hesitant?
Absolutely! In his own words: "Who am I, that
I should go unto Pharaoh and that I should bring forth
the children of Israel out of Egypt?" (Ex. 3:11).
But God proved to Moses that "I AM" (Ex.
3:14) indeed is in charge. If Moses would just trust
God, God would make everything possible.
Moses did what God told him to do. Was this freedom?
Yes! He made the choice to listen to God and to follow
God's instructions. Despite his fears, Moses obeyed
God and freed an entire people (Ex. 4-15). If you
listen to God and follow His instructions, then you
know that no matter what happens, you are on a protected
path. Such a protected path gives you the greatest
freedom imaginable.
Now Moses had a very clear message from God. But
how do we know God's voice if it's not broadcasted
from a burning bush?
When I have to make a tough decision:
- I always get really still.
- Then I clarify what I personally want.
- Once I know that, I push it aside and ask God
what is the right thing to do.
- Usually I feel the answer in my gut. I know the
right thing to do. Sometimes it's what I wanted
to do anyway, and sometimes it's not.
- Then comes the tough part -- following through.
I choose to listen to God, because when I haven't,
I have always eventually ended up in trouble. Because
this is a free country, people have the choice to
follow the wrong path.
In every society there are rules. And if you decide
not to live by them and are caught, you will be punished
and not enjoy your freedom. If you are not caught,
you will live in fear of being caught and spend countless
amounts of energy avoiding authorities or feeling
guilty -- again, not enjoying freedom. Pharaoh could
have listened to God and let the Jews go. He didn't
have to suffer the plagues. But he chose to do things
his way. And when personal will is not consistent
with God's will, trouble comes to plague us.
So what is ultimate freedom?
Ultimate freedom is doing the right thing, because
by doing the right thing you are being the ultimate
you. Often doing the right thing goes against "the
rules." That is why asking the question
- what is the right thing to do in this situation?
is more important than asking
- what is legal or what are the rules in this situation?!
Those questions are important, but doing what is
right -- what is God-directed -- is most important.
It gives us a clear conscience -- the most freeing
feeling in the world.
- How do I want to spend my day?
Listening. Enjoying the life God has in store for
me.
- Who am I, and what kind of person do I want
to be?
I want to be strong. I want to be bold. I want the
wisdom to know when to follow the rules and when
to break through the limitations of society. I want
to be happy and have a sense of purpose. I want
to see how I can grow, what I can do, and set goals
for myself. I want to be a free person, to realize
that freedom is not a condition of circumstance,
but a condition of thought.
- What direction do I want my life to go?
"Where your treasure is, there will your heart
be also" (Matt. 6:21). Think good, do good,
and your life will head in a good direction.
And if you find that you have lost direction or are
heading down a dark path, you can always look to God
and listen. He will direct your path -- the path of
freedom. 
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